Dear Kitty
Kitty Chambliss, PCC, CPC, ELI-MP is a certified relationship coach, keynote speaker, educator, author, and polyamorous + sex positive advocate. Kitty has made it her life’s mission to make thriving relationships – even unconventional ones – attainable to everyone. She is passionate about helping people like you live their most authentic, joyous, and healthy lives, free from shame…. Through this column she offers tips and advice to struggles you may be having. If have a problem and think that Kitty may be able to help solve it, please feel free to ask your question here.
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Kitty’s Most Recent Posts

  • Dear Kitty – The Other Foot
    A reader asks Kitty for help on how to help his wife cope with feelings of jealousy and insecurity in their new poly lifestyle. Follow this link to a public post on our Patreon Blog.
  • Dear Kitty – TheLastToKnow
    So many people start out in our ENM lifestyle through infidelity. Kitty Chambliss helps one of our new readers work his way through the struggles of the aftermath of his wife’s affair and helps him with his efforts to keep his relationship intact, while guiding him on his new endeavor into a more ethical approach to non-monogamy.
  • Dear Kitty – MonoMonotony
    Kitty Chambliss helps a couple find ways of keeping the spark alive after they settle back into monogamy.
  • Fighting My Green Eyed Monster
    Kitty Chambliss helps a reader who is struggling to deal with feelings of jealousy and insecurity when she and her husband start dating separately.
  • Dear Kitty – Finding My Voice
    Dear Kitty: I often get uncomfortable speaking out in a group setting, for example, regarding another member’s behavior in a sacred sexual place. It took a lot of courage recently for me to do so, speaking my truth, when everyone else seemed totally fine with the status quo. I feel I have a lot of […]